What attracts me to a man
The dating scene can be a minefield full of tension and anxiety I have only ever had one blind date in my life and the guy who turned up was nothing like my friend had described, He my friend had actually set the date up (meaning well) thinking he would be ideal for me (how could he think that) he was not my type at all.
The thing that first attracts me to a man is one who exudes the aroma of an expensive Cologne the take home message for men is: if you smell good to yourself and to the lady of your dreams you'll be a sure-fire winner.
If you pass the sniff test then I do like a man in a suit For one thing, suits look good. That’s what they’re designed to do. They make a man look stronger, more athletic, taller, more professional, etc. Stuff like lapels forming a V, the tie and other characteristics make that undeniable. SO, fact is, if you’re wearing a good well fitting suit, you’ll look better.
Suits also are a bit more involved to wear than a normal T-shirt and jeans. Especially when they’re not mandatory. So they show care for appearance and making an effort which I like.
Of course, this is only my opinion, some don’t like suits, and think they look ‘bland’ or ‘old-fashioned’ or ‘corporate’. It’s totally understandable.
Things I am not attracted by is shabby worn down heels on shoes, dirty finger nails and as mentioned above a bit smelly (especially under the arms) then again some people do not find that offensive. People like stuff. Nobody likes everything. Dress for yourself.
A well tailored suit is to a women what Lingerie is to a man
Birthday Suit.
In ones Birthday suit is a different meaning altogether meaning one's bare skin (from the fact that a person would not have any clothes on the minute they were born)
Ashley Shye always a pleasure xx